AJ Professional Medium & Death Educator
Death Awareness in the 21st Century. Because Spoiler Alert: Nobody Gets Out Alive.
Dismantling the taboos, mastering the anxiety, and designing your life’s final chapter on your own terms. Professional, protected, and surprisingly uplifting support from AJCM.
Let’s be brutally honest: death is the biggest event of our lives, and it is the one thing every single person on this planet has in common. So why on earth do we treat it like a dirty secret? Why do we completely avoid the topic over Sunday lunch, pretending if we don’t look at it, it won’t happen?
For the last decade, I have operated at the deep end of human emotion as a professional medium and mentor. Day in and day out, I have worked on the frontlines of real, raw grief, physical death, and the heavy psychological toll it takes on families. While my foundation in mediumship gave me a profound, firsthand understanding of the human relationship with loss, it also showed me a massive gap in how we live today. I watched too many people spinning out in existential panic, or leaving their grieving families to clean up an administrative and emotional mess.
That is why I am shifting my direction. I am stepping out of the traditional mediumship box to spearhead a new movement.
Talking about death does not need to be depressing, sad, or morbid. It should be a celebration of life, wrapped in laughter, humour, and absolute peace of mind. When you conquer the fear of death, you finally open the door to actually living in the present moment.
Through AJCM, I bring a completely fresh, modern approach to mortality. I am here to help you get your shit in place now so your family can remember you for the right reasons—with love, stories, and beautiful memories—not for the chaotic burden of having to guess your final wishes during their darkest hour.
What I Do
The Sanctuary Session: A private, 1:1 online space to ground acute existential dread and master death anxiety.
Anticipatory Grief Support: Tailored 1:1 sessions (online or in-person) to anchor you through the complicated pre-loss mourning of a terminal diagnosis.
The Pre-Crisis Family Blueprint: A structural, neutral consultation to help your family navigate the awkward conversations, digital legacy mapping, and environmental preferences before a crisis hits.
Death & Doughnuts Pop Ups Modern, conversational community pop-ups and corporate wellbeing seminars designed to normalise mortality with zero stuffiness over coffee and cake.
Stop hiding from the inevitable. Let’s bring death awareness into the modern age together. Book a Session
For over a decade, I have operated globally at the deep end of human emotion as a professional medium and mentor. But my background is anything but conventional. In between connecting people with the spirit world, my career was rooted in high-end close protection. I worked overseas, safeguarding elite and wealthy clients in high-stakes environments. It was an intense world that required absolute trust, sharp professionalism, and a massive amount of emotional intelligence.
Yet, no matter how far I travelled or who I was protecting, I was constantly being pulled back to my true calling. My passion belongs with spirit, and my purpose is helping people navigate the raw grief, devastating loss, and heavy emotional psychology that comes with losing a loved one.
So, why this sudden shift into Death & Doughnuts and everything in between?
The truth is, I am being directly guided by spirit to start this next chapter. Over the last ten years, I have watched the living collapse under the weight of unspoken words, avoided conversations, and severe death anxiety. Spirit has shown me firsthand that the transition of leaving this earth is beautiful, but the mess left behind by the living—simply because we refuse to talk about mortality—is entirely preventable.
I am stepping up to change that. I am bringing the exact same fierce sense of protection and professionalism from my past career into the world of 21st-century death awareness. My “Why” is simple: I want to help you take the fear out of the inevitable so you can actually enjoy the life you are living right now.
I do this work with absolute integrity, deep warmth, and a necessary splash of real-world humour. Death is coming for us all, but preparing for it doesn’t need to be miserable. Let’s get your shit in place, have a doughnut, and face the future on your own terms.
