About

The Mindset Shift: From Close Protection to Death, Grief and Human Connection.

For over a decade, I’ve been working at the deep end of human emotion as a professional medium and mentor. But my background is anything but predictable.

Alongside spirit work, I also came from the world of high-end close protection—working overseas, protecting elite and high-net-worth clients in high-stakes environments where trust isn’t optional and emotional intelligence isn’t a bonus, it’s survival. Different world, same skill set: reading people, reading energy, and knowing what isn’t being said.

No matter how far I travelled or who I was guarding, I kept getting pulled back to my real work. Spirit didn’t exactly do subtle. My actual calling has always been helping people through grief, loss, and the emotional chaos that follows death—the stuff most people avoid until it’s too late.

Before all of that, life had already thrown me into the deep end. I’m a single parent—still proudly am (my son is 22 now, so I must have done something right… or at least survived it lol). I’ve built and run multiple businesses in British Sign Language, working across corporate environments, universities, and affluent schools. Some brilliant, some disasters, all useful.

I also completed a criminology degree, during which I was diagnosed with cPTSD… and, naturally, that’s also when spirit decided to fully kick the door open. I discovered my mediumship right as I was meant to be writing my dissertation. Because apparently peace was not on the curriculum that year. Cheers for that. Nothing like divine timing to test your sanity.

On top of that, I’ve developed holistic practices here in South Wales and became a qualified spiritual life coach—ironically receiving my certification while working in Asia in close protection. Because apparently I don’t do “calm and steady,” I do “pressure makes diamonds.”

Looking back, none of this is random. Reading body language, understanding energy, and translating communication—whether from the living or the spirit world—has always been my natural language. I’ve always said not much gets past me… and I still stand by that.

I also lost my family when I was a teenager, which shaped everything that came after. Maybe that’s why spirit chose me. Or maybe I was just never really switched off from it in the first place. Either way, here we are.

So why the shift into death, grief and everything that sits in between?

Because I’ve been shown, repeatedly, that people are drowning in unspoken words, avoided conversations, and crippling death anxiety. And while the transition of death itself is peaceful, the chaos left behind by avoidance is not necessary.

I’m here to change that.

I bring the same protective instinct, discipline, and professionalism from my past career into modern death awareness and spiritual support. My purpose is simple: to take the fear out of the inevitable so you can actually live while you’re alive.

I work with honesty, warmth, and a necessary dose of refreshing humour. Death is coming for all of us—but preparing for it doesn’t have to be miserable.

Get your affairs in order, off load your worries, concerns and stress with me and start living on your own terms.