Welcome to Death & Doughnuts—a fresh, modern space dedicated to Death Awareness in the 21st century. Let’s be brutally honest: death is the biggest event of our lives, and it is the one thing every single person on this planet has in common. Spoiler alert: nobody gets out alive. So why treat it like a dirty secret or a taboo topic to avoid over Sunday lunch?
Led by AJCM (AJ), this movement is here to prove that talking about mortality does not need to be depressing, sad, or morbid. Backed by over a decade of front-line experience dealing with real, raw grief and emotional psychology, I ask the blunt, honest questions everyone else avoids. This is your ultimate opportunity to strip away the fear, live fully in the present moment, and design your final chapter on your own terms—with warmth, absolute protection, and a necessary splash of real-world humour. Let’s get your shit in place now so your family can remember you with love, and not the chaotic burden of making final decisions during their darkest hour. Have a doughnut, face the inevitable, and reclaim your narrative.
Death & Doughnuts
Welcome to Death & Doughnuts—a fresh, modern space dedicated to Death Awareness in the 21st century. Let’s be brutally honest: death is the biggest event of our lives, and it is the one thing every single person on this planet has in common. Spoiler alert: nobody gets out alive. So why treat it like a dirty secret or a taboo topic to avoid over Sunday lunch?
Led by AJCM, this movement is here to prove that talking about mortality does not need to be depressing, sad, or morbid. Backed by over a decade of front-line experience dealing with real, raw grief and emotional psychology, I ask the blunt, honest questions everyone else avoids. This is your ultimate opportunity to strip away the fear, live fully in the present moment, and design your final chapter on your own terms—with warmth, absolute protection, and a necessary splash of real-world humour. Let’s get your shit in place now so your family can remember you with love, and not the chaotic burden of making final decisions during their darkest hour. Have a doughnut, face the inevitable, and reclaim your narrative.
SERVICES
The Sanctuary Session (1:1 Existential & Peace Coaching)
Format: Online via Zoom
Outline: A private, non-clinical space for individuals feeling overwhelmed by thoughts of mortality or the fear of the unknown. Utilising a decade of front-line emotional experience, this session focuses on practical containment. Together, we look at your fears with compassion and build actionable daily coping mechanisms to bring you back down to earth, grounding your anxiety in the present moment. Includes a personalised digital Grounding Toolkit.
Length: 60 to 75 minutes
Fee: £120 – £150 per session
1:1 Anticipatory Grief Support Session
Format: Online via Zoom or In-Person (Local Travel within Blaenau Gwent, Merthyr, Abergavenny, and Aberdare)
Outline: Designed for individuals navigating the heavy, complicated emotional holding pattern experienced before a loss occurs. This session draws on deep grief experience to validate your feelings of exhaustion, guilt, and pre-loss mourning. It offers a protective, non-judgmental anchor and practical boundary-setting strategies to help you stay emotionally present for your loved one. Includes a digital Anticipatory Grief Toolkit workbook.
Length: 60 to 90 minutes
Fee: £130 – £160 (Zoom) | £180 – £220 (In-Person)
The “Pre-Crisis” Family Blueprint Consultation
Format: In-Person (Local Travel) or Online via Zoom
Outline: A structured, neutral intervention for healthy, clear-minded individuals and their adult families. Using a high-level protective approach to ask the blunt questions everyone else avoids, this session helps you safely navigate taboo conversations. We map out your environmental comfort preferences and design a digital legacy project filled with memories before a crisis hits, giving your family absolute peace of mind. Includes a workbook and a finalised digital Legacy Roadmap.
Length: 2 to 2.5 hours
Fee: £250 – £350 fixed package fee
Home Harmonising Reset
Format: In-Person (Your Home or Property)
Outline: Heavy emotional chapters leave a physical imprint on the spaces we live in. This signature service is designed to clear out heavy, stagnant, or lingering energy from a home following a major life transition such as a prolonged illness, a divorce, or a death. Combining a decade of spiritual expertise with grounded energetic boundaries, I reset the environment to restore balance, peace, and a fresh sense of protection to your physical sanctuary.
Length: 2 to 3 hours (Depending on property size)
Fee: £300 – £450 fixed fee (Plus local travel expenses if outside standard radius)
Workplace Wellbeing & CPD Masterclass (For Small Businesses)
Format: In-Person (At Your Office/Venue) or Online via Zoom
Outline: A powerful presentation tailored for small business owners, managers, and teams looking to dismantle workplace taboos around loss. This session serves as a highly engaging wellbeing hour or continuous professional development (CPD) training. I provide your team with the emotional intelligence and practical tools needed to navigate workplace bereavement, client loss, or acute stress with absolute professionalism, confidence, and compassion.
Length: 90 minutes (60-minute presentation + 30-minute interactive Q&A)
Fee: £350 – £550 fixed fee
Important Notice & Disclaimer
Please read the following information carefully before booking any of my services.
I am a professional medium, mentor, and death awareness educator. I am not a clinician, psychologist, psychotherapist, counsellor, or medical professional. I do not provide medical advice, psychiatric diagnosis, or clinical psychological treatment.
The services, coaching, and masterclasses provided through AJCM and Death & Doughnuts are designed for personal development, emotional empowerment, legacy planning, and energetic grounding. They are completely non-clinical and do not replace professional mental health counselling, medical intervention, or psychiatric therapy.
If you are experiencing severe psychological distress, clinical depression, mental health crises, or require medical treatment, please consult a qualified healthcare professional or therapeutic specialist. By engaging with my services, you acknowledge that our sessions are mentoring and awareness-based, and are not a substitute for professional clinical care.